A woman in London faces blackmail after sleeping with her boyfriend’s friend at a party.
In London, a woman shared her troubling experience with an agony aunt after sleeping with her boyfriend’s friend at a party just before Christmas. She described the encounter as a huge mistake, stating she was very drunk and did not even like the friend.
During the party, she found herself dancing and then ended up in an empty bedroom with him. Their encounter was described as urgent and satisfying, but it ended abruptly when the homeowner walked in.
Now, the friend is blackmailing her, demanding either a repeat encounter or £300. He threatens to tell her boyfriend if she does not comply. The woman feels terrible about the situation and is unsure how to handle it.
The agony aunt, Jane O’Gorman, advised her to confront the issue immediately. She emphasized that blackmail is illegal and suggested that the woman should tell her boyfriend the truth before anyone else does. Jane stressed that the woman’s boyfriend deserves honesty, regardless of the consequences.
Jane also encouraged the woman to seek support from family and friends and to reflect on her drinking habits and life choices.
| Date | Location | Incident | Advice Given |
|---|---|---|---|
| Before Christmas | London | Woman slept with boyfriend’s friend at a party | Confront boyfriend and seek support |
| N/A | N/A | Friend demands money or a repeat encounter | Blackmail is illegal; tell the truth |
